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My Top 10 Baby Steps to Becoming and Staying Smoke Free

Part of improving your health and over all well being means taking action to increase your physical fitness by implementing regular work outs into your weekly routine.  Every year spring seems to be a great motivator to start getting into better shape with the threat of “bikini season” right around the corner.  Over the past few months I have been making an effort to drag myself to the gym at least a few times a week to take Vinyassa Yoga and Zumba classes at the New York Sports Club.  Sure I want to get into better shape, who doesn’t? But there is another motivator behind my newly found fitness regiment, after 13 years I finally have quit smoking.

After a little over two months of being smoke free I am confident that on January 25th, when I finally decided to quit, it was for good.  After several weeks of intense reading and research about smoking cessation and addiction I put together a “Quit Smoking Plan” for myself that I feel made it infinitely easier for me to finally quit as opposed to the experiences I have seen my friends and coworkers go through when they have tried to quit in the past.  As we all know, quitting smoking is a good idea for any smoker but it’s hard and there are so many different aspects of addiction to smoking cigarettes that should be taken into account when trying to quit.  That being said, of course different methods work for different people but for me these 10 Baby Steps are some that I found to be the most helpful in my effort to finally extinguish my icky smoking habit and not only helped me quit but have helped me remain smoke free.  I  hope if you are trying to quit some of these little tidbits are helpful and good luck on your way to becoming a non-smoker!

My Top 10 Baby Steps to Becoming and Staying Smoke Free:

1- Quit when you are ready and really want to quit.  This is by far one of the most important things to consider when trying to rid yourself of any habit, but especially smoking.  If you really don’t want to quit you won’t, it’s that simple.   I suggest really thinking about it and pick a time to quit when you feel you are at that point where your desire to be smoke free is at its all time high for this desire will have to get you through all those tough cravings ahead which can be pretty intense when you first quit.

2-Plan for it.  Some people have told me they went from smoking a pack a day to nothing and had great success and if you think this will work for you then my hats off to you.  I knew for myself that cutting down before finally quitting all together would be a better route so 6 months before I quit I started slowly reducing the number of cigarettes I would smoke a day from 15 to 12 to 10 and so on until I was down to 3 a day.  I believe gradually cutting back on the number of cigarettes I smoked helped  reduce the amount of cravings I eventually had after quitting and it also helped me mentally prepare for giving up smoking all together by slowly letting go of my daily smoking rituals one at a time.  It is important to remember that addiction is just as much mental as it is physical.

3-Know The Facts.  They say knowledge is power and this has never been more true then when trying to kick the smoking habit.  Be informed, read about ways that helped others quit, read about addiction, read about the effects smoking has on the body and the effects quitting has as well.  The human body is incredible and it’s fascinating to read about all the different changes it goes through once you decide to quit smoking.  As much damage as smoking can cause to our bodies when we quit, almost instantly our body begins to repair the damage we have done to it.  I found knowing the different physical and chemical changes occurring every day after I quit was  very helpful to read over and over in the first week to keep me motivated to remain smoke free.  Here are just a few examples of these:

  • After 20 minutes of quitting your blood pressure, pulse rate and temperature of your hands and feet all return to normal
  • After 8 hours the remaining nicotine in your bloodstream will have fallen to 6.25% of normal peak daily levels, a 93.25% reduction
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Do You Zumba?

So one of my goals for 2012 is to get back into shape. I posted a little on this before, but I am definitely a believer that getting into shape is one way to really boost your energy levels, make you feel better about yourself and just improve your overall well being.  That being said, I have also confessed of my extreme laziness at times, in other words I have to talk myself into going to the gym almost every single time.  I finally quit smoking which I intend to post on very soon, its been almost 2 months and part of stopping smoking I decided would include getting back into to shape, because as most people know, smoking cessation usually goes hand in hand with moderate weight gain.   So for the last month I have been going regularly to Vinyassa Yoga-2-3 times a week and I decided to try and recruit my co-worker, as she lives very close to me and is probably one of the nicest people of all time, to go with me however she shot me down but countered with an offer of Zumba.  I had never heard of it and I even had to look online to make sure they had it at the New York Sports Club-they did.  I agreed to meet her two Saturdays ago at the NYSC and let me tell you, this class was ridiculously fun.

Usually when someone asks me if I dance/like to dance I say, “I enjoy hopping up and down to music,” which I do. I am not a dancer but can stay on the beat 80% of the time, whatever that means.  When I walked into the Zumba class at 9:15am two Saturdays ago, (yes 9:15am, it was a struggle) what I found was a group of mostly women, who enjoy hopping up and down to music and were mostly able to stay on the beat 80% of the time-it was amazing, they were just like me.  Meet Zumba, the dance class for-non dancers.  My instructor, I swear to you, resembled a mini Tina Turner on speed and was dressed in a black cut off tank with a large glitter heart in the middle, she looked like she was in a music video,  She was insatiable, yelling encouragement to the class of 40, sleepy-eyed, Upper East siders, the music blaring, a compilation of different kinds of music most with a Latin feel with some hip hop and other music mixed in.  It was almost overwhelming at first, but I did what I always do when I go out or am at a wedding, I started hopping around and after about 10 minutes I knew I had finally found a dance class at the gym I would not be afraid to take —–and for the next 45 minutes it was going to kick my butt.

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The Mustard Seed

The Mustard Seed

Author Unknown

There is an old Chinese tale about a woman whose only son died. In her grief, she went to the holy man and asked, “What prayers, what magical incantations do you have to bring my son back to life?”

Instead of sending her away or reasoning with her, he said to her, “Fetch me a mustard seed from a home that has never known sorrow. We will use it to drive the sorrow out of your life.” The woman went off at once in search of that magical mustard seed.

She came first to a splendid mansion, knocked at the door, and said, “I am looking for a home that has never known sorrow. Is this such a place? It is very important to me.”

They told her, “You’ve certainly come to the wrong place,” and began to describe all the tragic things that recently had befallen them.

The woman said to herself, “Who is better able to help these poor, unfortunate people than I, who have had misfortune of my my own?”

She stayed to comfort them, then went on in search of a home that had never known sorrow. But wherever she turned, in hotels and in other places, she found one tale after another of sadness and misfortune.

The woman became so involved in helping others cope with their sorrows that she eventually let go of her own. She would later come to understand that it was the quest to find the magical mustard seed that drove away her suffering.

 

When we find ourselves in difficult situations in our lives sometimes it can seem as though we are the only ones suffering such misfortune or grief.  When we take the time to really look around us though, it becomes evident that life, with its triumphs and pitfalls happens to everyone, rich or poor, young or old, everyone has their own “sorrows”.  Of course the kinds of struggles each person faces varies, however to think we are the only ones facing challenges in our lives is simply naive.

Sometimes when you feel like you have reached the end of your rope and have no more else to give, thats when you should give the most as you can find that same comfort in giving as your were grieving.    The old woman, guided by the holy man she sought out in her grief, discovered this to be true and it is important for us to remember to start our own journey to seek out places where we can give back if we find ourselves unable to move past our own “sorrows”.

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